Start of 2018/ Trump/ #MeToo/ #TimesUp/ Cryptocurrency/Stupid People and what I hope for the year!

2018 is about to be an interesting and history-making year starting with the Yellow Bear aka Trump.

Who would have thought that he would have gotten worse after the election, certainly not me? Well, he did and the tweeting was just the beginning. Trump pulled a Nino Brown at times by throwing others under the bus and claiming it was not him from rape, sexual assault, prostitution romps, election payoffs and white house shenanigans. The first family normally lives in the White House, well not these ass holes. His wife cited her sons' education. Heffa the best school in the nation is the preparatory schools that the senator kids go to. Her ass wanted to be close to her secret lover, we all know it. I can't wait for that tea to spill.

Trump for rid of both of his token house niggas Ben Carson and Omarosa Manigault. Are there any left? You know in the late 70's Fred and Donald Trump were sued because on their applications they use to write "C" so that they knew the applicants were colored (black). They lost the case then Donald tried to sue again. He lost and gave up. His dad/family is of German descendants and his dad was a known racist just like Donald, but he still wants to shout, " I am the biggest non-racist you will ever meet". WTF? Only the guilty will quote something that they know is true, thinking that you will believe them.

He tweets more than a 7th grader on Twitter. Throws a fit more than a 2-year-old and speaks vulgarity at every sunrise. This man is a hot ass mess! I really do hope that we do not have 3 more years of this shit. #ICan't #Impeach #No2ndTerm
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Now on to the Metoo and TimesUp movement. When I first heard of this a few years ago, nothing blew it up like Harvey Weinstein. When that happened I also thought to myself of the opportunist females that would come out of the shadows. It was not until Aziz Ansari that 1 of the females slipped and let us know that she screamed MeToo because she had a bad date and bad sex with a celebrity and wanted to get her 15 minutes, but it backfired by her own words. I was so happy and even more overjoyed when Ashleigh Banfield defended him on her HLN show. I was jumping and yelling yaaazzz, but the bitch on blast, because every man is not a predator and every woman, is not a victim. I am surrounded by too many chicken heads (dumb women) who claim that something happened that didn't, but when they get around supposed Girlfriends like me the truth comes out. Surprise bitch- I am not condoning your bad behavior to bring a man down. I'm telling!

I had a girlfriend who stalked this Professional Football Player. She thought that if she could get him into bed, she could keep him. After 9 months of popping up to events or private parties where he would be she finally got him in bed. Came to my house and told me all about it, she was smiling from ear to ear. But 2 days later, that smile turned into anger because he told her he was busy and not looking for anything serious, then a week later- he raped me. I calmly told her that if she went to the police or anyone with her bullshit story, I would blast her out and tell them your 9-month stalking plan that backfired. She is not the only one. I have never fixed my lip to call bad sex or a guy that turned out to be a jerk more than those two things. Bad sex or a jerk, but some women with no moral background and lack of common sense have. They disgust me and I hope that the accusers sue them for defamation of character to teach them a lesson.

If you are truly a survivor of MeToo and TimesUp like I am then great, put those dogs on blast and seek justice. Do it when it happens. Don't wait! But if you are an opportunist, I hope you end up in jail for falsifying a police report then sued by your accuser. We need justice on both sides, not just one side.
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My favorite subject and what I hope to happen to stocks and cryptocurrency. I want the Trump cult to leave our marijuana laws alone. They are just trying to do like South Korea and make larger profits from something that they do not want. lololol If they cant make money then they don't want us to have it.

I need my Mary-Jane investments, stocks and cryptocurrencies to rise a lot in 2018 without the Trump interference.

Bitcoin will rise to $28,000 before August 2018 and this will cause quite a few of the 1,500 coins to rise. This means it is the best time to buy low before they rise baby. Yaaazzz. Cryptocurrency will be currency in the US. Think about it, we had to barter, next was gold & silver to make purchases, then coins next was our paper and coins, then credit cards and online banking which is taking away the need to hold currency in your purse that we have today. It is time for us to evolve again and I think cryptocurrency is that way. ohhh, I am so excited. #BringOnTheRise

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Ugghhh, this subject gives me headaches and constantly have me look like a deer in head lights sometimes.

Stupid People and lack of common sense in America at an all-time low and it's bothersome.

Nothing huge just small simple stuff like;
*How to search your email for documents
*Pissed & about to fight someone because you missed your flight ( they should have held the plane for you so other passengers can be late for their travels)
*I used the bathroom anyway, but there was no toilet tissue (how did you wipe your ass?)
*My shredder is not working (umm, you so know it is unplugged?)
*Which search box should I use
*Do you think the 8:32a Bart Train will wait for me, I know it is 8:34a but why did it leave early?
*I know my kid is 3 but I rather keep him in diapers and a bottle (because I am lazy)
*I see you on the phone, but I need my question answered now ( do you have change for $1?)
*I know the website says $51, but how much is it for 2 tickets?
*I know I don't have money and this is my last $8, but I need that chicken box( next day, can I borrow $5 for gas)
*How dare you ask me for money that I owe you? (:/) #BlankFaceEverytime
*You don't understand why your hair is falling out. You went from a normal shampoo with water to a dry shampoo ( hey I am lazy and this saves me 20 minutes) Washing your hair and your body with water been around for 6 million years, but now you want to go dry. Ahhh, O.K. lolol
*I struggle paying $1150 rent because I only make $5,800 a month. I have no kids and no bills but I need my hair and nails done so I can go to the bar. (I just don't understand why they are evicting me?)
*Hey your sign says 1 per child, but my kid is special and already took 5, can they have 2 more. (yea, you don't give a fuck about anyone else kids)
*Why you don't ever eat my food? ( You did tell me you save water by NOT washing your hands unless you do a number 2. Doing a Number 1 and your hands is fine) You nasty Biiihhhh!
*I don't know why they got mad at me, I am only an hour late) They should have saved my reservation at the restaurant that it took 4 months to get into. {Being late is a sign of disrespect- you idiot!}
*Why the fuck can't you loan or give me money? (why do people get mad because you have money and they don't because of poor life choices) I don't get that... My advice- {Go play in traffic or run in a house fire with gasoline drawz on, please & thank you! }

Ok, this is my 1st rant and hopes for the start of 2018. . . . .

Yall keep in touch!
#NewFriendsIn2018 

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Bitcoin, Cyptocurrency, Virtual Money and the IRS. . . What is in store for 2017?

I am obsessed with CryptoCurrency and the IRS interest in what people have made.

In 2013, I was introduced to Bitcoin, but I shook it off like a dummy for about a year, until 2015.But October of 2016 Bitcoin changed my life. I put a little bit more on Bitcoin on March 22, 2016 & it is like winning the lottery. I have become obsessed with all things Virtual money, games with crypotocurrency, mining and exchange trading. In the last week I have read, researched and attended online webinars averaging about 90 hours in 7 days. I am sleepy, lolol

Well bursting into the New Year Bitcoin smashed the $1,000 plus dollars a coin. If you bought bitcoin when it was like .50 each, then Kudos. ( Do you need a girlfriend?) lolol Just joking, (maybe)

WOW! 2017 will be a very interesting year, not only with Trump but taking note as to what the IRS will try to do with Bitcoin investors in the US, My investments with Virtual money, and the marijuana industry. I am stoked about it all. .

This article was written in 2014 about how the IRS would treat like capital gains. But now in 2016 they are trying to tax the money people are making from Bitcoin and trying to find out how to capitalize from it, after seeing the 2 year success.

Uncle Sam is a hot ass mess! https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2014-03-25/bitcoin-is-property-not-currency-in-tax-system-irs-says

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ANSWER ME THIS!!!

What RATCHET, HOT MESS or Dis-belief statement, picture, or thing do you know of that either you do or someone else does?

Talk to me , tell me the statement and if a picture please attach it for me.
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My example- I saw a video of a chick dancing over a guy in the club with her tampon string hanging out... ( HUH? WHo does that? ) lolol

My brother Ozzie likes to say " Go play in a house fire with gasoline drawz on" lolol, this is funny and a disbelief statement.

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Ghetto mothers!

Where is the home training? 

1. They don't own a garbage can and throw trash on the floor. U buy them one and they still throw trash on the floor, so u but them 2 more trash cans and still no change.

2. They use the welfare cash not to buy for the kids or the house but to buy alcohol, weed, pills & syrup. But when out of toilet tissue have to hunt down a friend to purchase. WTF? 

3. They meet a man and within the hour ask for a car or cash for the kids, which we both know is for drugs. Wow! Yea, the guy does disappear bcuz that bitch crazy.

4. They go on a date with a good guy and get drunk bcuz their scared to have someone treat them and their bad ass kids right, so they fuk it up

5. Keeps saying imma get a job, but has no I.D. and hung over every night. 

6. Doesn't hear the 6 year old daughter say "she wish mommy would stop drinking. 

7. Every dish and plate in the house are for kids 2&3, but ur kids are 5 & 6, and u drink ur liquor out their plastic dishes bcuz u won't spend $10 on a set or a dollar for a grown up glass at the dollar tree. Sorry ass bitches! 

8. Someone u don't even know has purchased home items for you and u don't even say thanks.... Purchase to date 3 garbage cans, cooking pans, kitchen rags and oven gloves, cups and glasses, dinnerware for adults, given you towels, pots, and spend time with ur kids bcuz ur passed the fuck out. 

I could go on and on.... These bitches are pathetic and ungrateful. 

I felt sorry for the kids, they always ask, "r u coming back?" 

Ghetto mommies! 

Today I woke up and felt like a virgin again, then I woke up from the dream, dreaming that I was waking up feeling like a virgin with a dick in my mouth. . WTF? Niggas aint shit, I tell ya. . I was already tired as fuck from the 4th of july and now this shit.

How would men feel if I came home from work and while that Dallas cowboy game was on, jumped on the couch standing and just locked on to their head, and said eat me or u wont see the game at all.  . WTF?

Would he get me off right quick or argue with that beer in his hand so he could see the game, lolol?

Why do people think you are jealous of them? Do they NOT have mirrors in their homes?

Could it be because they are jealous of you? I think so!

Why am a saying this?

I heard a woman say that another was jealous of her friend and after seeing her friend, I said that woman who made that statement must be blind. They must be jealous of the other and she is trying to stroke her friends ego.

The friends-(lets call her Asia) lack of curves, knocking knees, Sponge Bob like shape, no boobs, ass, hips or any type of shape what so ever, how on earth could the other woman be jealous, I wondered. The Sponge Bob impersonator then proceeded after Halloween to speak about a show Grimm and said how some people change their faces. I thought how weird for her to make that statement, when I saw the show I said she could be a stand in for the monsters (no mask or make up needed- she does a great job of that on her own) lmfao. A comedian once told me, I would let her suck my dick, but I wont sleep with her no telling how many have been up in there. Another man who she thinks wants her said "I am just nice to her becuz she puts it out there, Ill take it cause she offering" "But when the bitch asked about my ex-boyfriend, in efforts of sleeping with him. Whoa! I cant be affiliated with hoes unless they are working for me. lolol ( thats a joke) maybe, lolol. .. .Hoes have no boudries, oh did I tell you she is married? lmfao

The commenter- (lets call her no neck) lives with her mother bcuz she didnt want to pay rent any more with her room mate. I guess $500 a month is too much to pay when you drive a mercedes and have a shoppinng habit that takes all of your income, married but husband lives in another city so he can find peace and women from her nagging and crazy behavior, she however is a walking boob shelf with no neck or ass. lolol. Doesnt pay her car payments to feed her shopping disease and asked a co-worker to take over her payments for her so she could get another car thats cheaper. Tries to down nose those around her, but they have no idea she has nothing but her clothes, if she sold those she would have a nice savings, lolol.

Both women share some common factors even though they have talked about each other and didnt even like each other a few months ago. They share that same lack of an ass, they love bad weaves and bad hair, and they both lack healthy relationships with men, lolol.

But the woman they both hate because they lack morals, lives in her own apartment, her car is paid for, and has career minded choices that she is seeking out in life not to let them destroy them but make them aware of who she is and what they are trying to do to her. Could they be jealous is her curves, cuteness, morals, bottle shape figure, ambition, and gorgeous hair. She doesnt hold her tongue to their bullshit. I THINK SO!

So in retrospective they do have reasons to try and boost each others ego's, no one else will. Play wit it bitches, no one else will!

LMFAO!

Knowing your worth!

I knew before kindergarden that I was suppse to be something more than just be in life. . . . My great great grand mother schooled me early on pimps and hoes and how the first pimp was a woman, but men took the business over and fucked it up with thier mistakes and cruelty of their workers. lolol Madam's became wealthy and had homes, bank accounts, & families. While the male pimps lived day to day in hotels on hookers money and fast cars.

She told me the most valuable thing a woman has is her pussy and why would you want to give that away to someone undeserving. Your husband should be equally yoked to you, where you would protect him and he you. She told me alot about her and my great grandfather and who they were when they were younger and who they had become with age.

My great grandmother was one of the wisest women I have ever spoken to and she lived until I was 15 years old. Her death is also the only funeral I have ever cried at and actually felt like I was about to die and could not breath anymore. I was confused when she passed, I didnt know why back then. But later I realized that my mother was there and I had no one else to protect me from her.

I guess I am writing this, because I forgot about what i am worth and listening to alot of my girlfriends complain about their men is reminding me... After i all I do tell them quite often, men will only do what you allow them to. So change that and you change yourself.

I just wanted to write a little, nothing too much.. Talk to yall later. .

"Girl! Did you just fart, because you blew me away"

The worst line any nigga has ever said to me, I am still floored about that one. . lololol

Anyway, the other night a guy friend of mine caught his soon to be fiance in bed with another woman. Now I say soon to be because, he bought a ring 3 weeks ago and was waiting until September 25th to propose to her, trying to be romantic and pop the question on the day they met. I guess the big surprise was on him. I thought and told him he was one of the very few and last considerate men left out there and this ind wasnt cheap ( after all, i did help him pick it out) Exquisite if I must say so myself.

Anyway, back to the story. So just about every other nigga i know would be pleased, but my friend is not one of those men. He is really hurt and disgusted at the fact that he had no idea. I feel sorry for him really and yet I think he will have a hard time moving on from this, but  guess we will see if they get together in the next few months or if it is completely over.

So even though some men are scum and try fucked up pick up lines and show no emotion about anything in life, they can also be sweet and really emotional about their loved ones and friends. I am so blessed to have him as one my true friends and I hope he finds happiness very soon.

This is the 2nd one of my male friends that is a good man to get burned... Women say they want a good man, but when they truly get one they fuck him over, just like doggish men do good women.

So why cant the good find the good, I guess that will be my next subject in the very near future?

What makes a WOMAN a dumb bitch when it comes to MEN and WHY?

YOU will NEVER meet his children, becuz you don’t matter.

YOU will NEVER be seen with him in public, becuz he is ashamed of you or he feels why take you out and spend money, he is already getting yor goodies.

YOU can NEVER go to his house to sleep, becuz he has a gilfriend, wife, boyfriend (and ur an experiment) or just embarrassed about you. Your only a piece of ass to him.

YOU can NEVER express how you are feeling in public, becuz he will NEVER take you out. HE IS JUST AN ASSHOLE with other motives.

YOU will never meet his mother - He is afraid of what momma will say (always have been and gets very MAD when u say it) Listen! lolol.......

YOU will NEVER build self confidence about yourself becuz you allow him to belittle or hit you, becuz you (yourself) do not value your own self worth.

YOU will NEVER know where he is and call him repeatedly becuz he feels you dont need to know and may call you when on the way for a piece of ass and you accidentally find out.

YOU will always be jealous, becuz he will NEVER tells you anything and why should he. You only see him at your house, no dinner, no movies, no lunch, no flowers, no apologies, no pick up or drop you off to work. NO NOTHING!

YOU will NEVER be #1, becuz everything else comes before you. EVERYTHING!

in all HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, and You have been a stupid bitch for waiting around thinking that all of this will change. After a few weeks of the same pattern you should have been gone and not even have gotten to the sex part.... lololol

All of these may not apply to you, but if at least 2 ( I said at least 2) then you should step back and re-evaluate your situation.

WHY do you let this happen? There are many reasons. The most popular few are;
1. You love him, for reason unknown to you
2. Your lonely and he is the only man paying you any attention.
3. The sex got your mind fucked up.
4. He feeds you and you dont get food stamps and not working right now. So you need that right now! lolol
5. He is a sexy Mutha Fucka and you cant stop, not wanting to see and feel his body.

by; Mrs. Xklucive

Men and their insecurities! WOW!

Had a father's day cookout last night. Had Fun! But questions lingered thru the night. The man that I like showed jealousy of another man hitting on me, ( that has no chance with me) How can someone stop someone else from liking them. So men just like the chace, but that chace with me can go on for years, until their death.

They get mad if you dont give them your phone number. They dont know how to court women any more, bcuz of all the chicken heads that made their pussy so readily easy for men not to have to work for it. Then women like myself have a hard time searching for the kind of man we want and like.

And yall wonder why women turn gay, ITS EASIER BITCHES! (men) lolol

If a man is not secure enough to trust a woman who likes a certain type of man, never showed any interest in anyone else but you and tells you how she feels. WHAT THE FUCK IS THE PROBLEM? This kinda shit pisses me off. I dont have time for drama or bull shit in my life. This shit will only push me away and seek another. So fellas if you have a great woman, dont try her. Sometimes we push back, and TRUST! It will sting in the end.

Just let me do me and you, then there will not be any problems. What the hell should I do, I think I am gonna have to flip the script for a minute and see if that works for me. If it does, I will find someone else any way, becuz that means, he is so content with bull shit, he doesnt know how to respond to anything else. I'm too old for this shit now, and tired... So fuck it!

WIFE vs WIFEY!

When I was growing up, the “Unofficial Woman’s Handbook” always spun the idea, that when it came to a woman’s virtue, the best bet would be to hold on to what you have, and a man’s response to your chastity would resolve itself into a life of happiness and matrimony.
We’ve all heard the phrase, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.” Words were no truer a reality, then they are now in this generation where marriage has become somewhat of an urban legend, or possibly the next stop in mythological findings.

Times have definitely changed, and the game of love doesn’t necessarily honor its members with a salute of longevity by way of exchanging vows. Rather, the new plan of attack is to just cop yourselves a prototype; a title officially known to most as “wifey.”

But what exactly is a wifey anyway? Is this the new standard women should aim for rather than bothering with the archaic ideology that marriage is the game of fortune?

Wifey’s are far different than being a man’s girlfriend. Usually a girlfriend aspires to be a man’s wife. On the other hand, wifey’s aspire to keep a man happy, whether the title of wife comes in the future or not.

The name in itself has all the pleasures of everything a wife possesses, but when a brother wants to walk away, he can do so without having to miss a beat due to court appearances or battles over the shared property.

In the wake of recent public divorces involving Swizz Beatz and Dwyane Wade, it would seem as if the exchanging of vows no longer offers the security it once did when it comes to hoping for a guarantee in forever. Does this mean love would be better served if we just threw away the idea of marriage? Should we opt to stay in the pretense of matrimony with someone who would be willing to wear the crown without being sworn in to the throne?

Maybe.

It might save people a lot of trouble and misfortune, to just cop themselves a wifey, instead of trying to find forever with a wife. Hmph… if only I believed that theory.
Unfortunately, being able to cut your losses when the going gets tough is becoming the most attractive venture in aspiring relationships. It’s also an excuse for folks to treat love like a temporary tattoo–easily washed and removed when the surface appears to get tattered and torn, rather then working to fix the problems.

In examining the two, there are vast differences in both titles.

The duties of a wifey are definitely not those of a wife.
Oh no. A wifey’s sole responsibility is to keep it fun, playful, and sexually interesting at all times. They don’t have to worry about exploring the budget, because the plan isn’t for them to hold down a household. And until that theory changes, they can enjoy the perks of living the life of a wife, without having to actually worry about paying the mortgage.
But what really makes these women so attractive to men is they’d rather settle down with someone who they see no end in sight with?

To many, wifeys mark the difference between a man coming home to a frumpy housemate, versus running home to play house with a sexy bedmate.

Most cheaters claim after they got married, everything changed. All the sexy their woman once had dried up like a grape turning into a raisin once the vows were said. Wifey’s on the other hand stay sexy year round, which makes them a more attractive mate, than waking up next to a woman who suddenly looks like her mom.
In defense of said women, the responsibilities of a wife far outweigh the laid back lifestyle of a man’s wifey. Wives cook and clean, while wifeys kick back, relax, and look good on a man’s arm. Wives have to work full time, and maintain the household once they get home. Wifeys have to maintain only the relationship by keeping a man pleasured, happy, and continually interested in their presence.
It should be noted that just because a woman gets married doesn’t mean she’ll let herself go. There are plenty of women who can sustain a superwoman posture, and still remind their man why he chose them in the first place.

Yet even with all of this on the table, more and more men are either leaving their wives for these women, or settling with women who are cool with the idea they never have to formally commit to forever.

With Michelle Obama standing tall as the wife many of us desire to one day be, should we still hope our men will always want to “Put a Ring On It,” or must we prepare ourselves for the role of playing house for as long as our car is allowed in the driveway?

Is it cool to be a wifey or should be demand to be a wife? Do you think a woman can be both?


REPOSTED FROM CLUTCH MAGAZINE. . . . all my thoughts reminded me, I needed that. ..

What made u want to settle or did you forget to ask yourself that important question? You know the woman you are and what all you have to offer? Do you feel that your worthy of being the wife and not Wifey? What made him marry her and not you, but your still around? What could you have done differently to make that change? Would it be forever with you, or will another woman later, become Wifey, while your the wife?

So many questions and only 1 answer. ( Get your own and figure it out, leave her man alone) by Joe Bacon

It's been a while, 2.5 months since my last post

UPDATE- I moved back to West Palm for 6 months for training then back to ATL. I am deeply sadden by this bcuz I love West Palm , although Miami and its fucking immigrants pissed me off alot. I was planning on retiring in South Florida, this recession is a mutha fucka, I can tell you that much.

Anyway, the new job eh. But it helps me pay the bills, I love the new people I have met. Some are crazy like me that is a plus. lololol ( shut up I hear yall) lololol

I wanna be near my aunt in ATL, she has MS and it looks as if its taking a toll on her. I think she will pull around, but i considered her the deepest living impact on my life and the sane part of me. hehehe But sriously , I just wanna be near her.

I am back to my ranting and raving of the lunatic that is I ( JOE BACON)

This is short and sweet , talk to yall in a few. .

Friendships, Sisterhood, Trust, Communication, and Responsiblity.

I know its been a month but for anyone who knows me, ya know I was at the Super Bowl and this year the Pro Bowl was thrown in there. . . .
Anyway, ya already know how I feel about Haiti. Well another subject has shifted my focus tonight. .

A girlfriend that once was a great friend to me, now gone rouge. . .

Friendship- state of being friends with someone. This is something that I take very seriously. Do people really not value awesome friends anymore. Sometimes friends treat you better than your own family. I cant understand why anyone in their right mind, who needs friends would treat another person so crudely.

Sisterhood- sisterly relationship, solidarity of women based on shared conditions, experience, or concerns. We had great times together and thought there were reasons to lie, steal, or hurt each other.

Trust- assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something, one of which confidence is placed. When I can no longer trust someone it angers me to unbelievable heights and evilness, because the lie is so petty and never should have been told. $$ and life play a huge factor in the situation. I am just in total awe of the entire situation. . . . .

Communication- a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common sense of symbols, signs, or behavior. Do people not realize that if your in trouble and you are suppose to be friends, that you are their to support them. Kids are involved and you should not take that lightly.

Responsibility- something for which one is responsible (burden) - has neglected her responsibilities. As a mother your child should come first, not men, not your pride, not your family- that beautiful child of yours. . .

Situation is that I have this girlfriend that use to be very close to me, but until 3 years ago she started to change. She went from being a country club member, football players & very sucessful men, being respected by the community,alot of friends, beamers & benz to men who live in halfway houses, lying, friends who tolerate her and money issues.

3 yeas ago she started dating someone who had only been out of jail for 3 weeks. He lived in a half way house, after doing 10 years in jail. (yeah- I know) Yall don't understand this is no hood chick, has a family of means, support, and money. Board member in different social groups, does fundraising, goes to social balls and knows what the term "Seasons" mean in Palm Beach, lolol if U have to ask, then U don't know, lolol And her last boyfriend played for the Chicago Bears.

Anyway, where was I? oh. so he is out of jail after 10 years, and in a half way house. Now, she has a jaguar, a beamer, 2 houses, job that pays over $100,000 a year, single with no kids. PRIME of her life. .

Now her new beau straight outta jail, is driving her cars, and she is treating his family to dinner and shopping sprees. "I'm floored as well as her other friends and her family. We tried the nice approach, which U already figured didn't work, then cursing her out before things got out of hand.

So she is now falling in love, lost her mind and crazy within 2 months of meeting this guy. So now she is talking about marriage and of course my phone keeps hanging up on her, I have no idea( the line just dies, lolol) anyway, a few months later she is telling me she is pregnant ( I think its a bad joke but its true) he still living in the half way house. So now, she is getting married, I asked her if she wants me to slit her wrist for her, especially after she tells me about her moms disapproval (YA THINK! ) He is also kicking her ass, we cant talk about that right now, I am getting mad.

The OMG moment! While she is waiting on him to take her to the court house and get married, he just called to say "I love you" ooops, no wrong story, he called to say "I decided to marry someone else and I am now married to her" WTF, OMG, Kill yo self drama. . I was looking for Jerry Springer to come busting thru the door or Aston Kutcher to say "your being punked". 2 weeks later, we find out, not only did he marry someone else on her, but the new wife is pregnant and they are a week apart on delivery dates and there is a 3rd lady pregnant as well. . I ask, can U believe it? This is a true story. . .WAIT THERE IS ALOT MORE. . so now she is really lost her MIND, not calling her crazy, she has become crazy. . And I know love is a mutha fucka, but dam. .Yall shouldn't have been together in the first place. Now she is looking real stupid, what did you think would happen with a nigga who been locked up for 10 years with no PUSSY. WHAT DID YOU THINK WOULD HAPPEN, REALLY? I need to know.


So now she starts dating another man she met, while taking him back and forth from the half way house. . I guess hoping to see him and make him jealous. her rationalization for anything is out the door. Same thing with this one, but now she is 7 months pregnant and sleeping with someone else in the halfway house with 9 kids. She has the baby, the guy is maybe around until 2 months after, then she is back with the baby daddy who has left his wife, but not divorced her. (I guess he needed money to support that other family) lolol he came back for a few months and left again. . .Back to his wife and $6 an hour job, and my friend is just a lunatic. . she is now stalking him, buying things for his family (sisters and his son from before he went to prison) I call her crazy, bcuz she has lost he job running behind him and now is not working. Her daughter is quickly growing up. She lost both houses and both cars and moved in with her parents. Its another year, and the child they had is now a year and a half. For some reason - I think he needed money again and his wife put him up to it, she is slimy just as he is, now I knew why he married her, aside from her being pregnant too.

Holidays 2009,around October- she gets a house and they move in together, but this was short lived. The wife only kicked him out, no intentions on divorcing him. He started to kick her ass again and this time breaks her arm. YES BROKE HER FUCKING ARM. . . and then left her on Christmas Day to spend time with his real family. She calls me outta the blue bcuz I started to separate my friendship from her for over a year now.

I realize she needed a friend, so in January 2010, I decide to go see her, but for 2 weeks she kept having emergencies come up. . So I finally said, "look bitch I will be there in the morning , fuck the bullshit" she comes out and says she is 5.5 months pregnant by him. . OMG...........................................................!

I mean, WTF . . . The first thing I could say was when is ur appointment at the clinic for an AB? WHAT? Yall just don't know. . She says, she doesn't know if she can get it done, I'm thinking she is talking about time, this bitch is considering having another child by him. . I told her it was up to 6mths, and don't make me call her mom. . . I couldn't even go see her, I was so mad. . .She went about 5 days later to terminate the pregnancy. . . .Said her mother took her, I now do NOT believe that.

So I am trying to give her support because I feel so sadden by her change in demeanor, and mind set. And just embarrassed for her all together as my friend. I mean, I am a hermit at times, but I have 4 very strong friendships that I call on in a time of need. . And for her not to come to me, I am just floored, mad, and in awe at what she has been getting involved in.. .

So lets go to 2 weeks ago, Super Bowl week in South Florida, she claims to be moving into a new house for a new start. Well yesterday I am at her house around 11:30a, she flew out of town at 7am, but didn't tell me yet again what type of trouble she is in. . Landlord comes to evict her, wait she moved in 2 weeks ago. . She has written 2 bad checks and then deposited a check for a closed account into the homeowners business account (can you say FELONY?). . . so the landlord is informing me that I have to visit, I tell him no problem, I don't even live here and was visiting, I will pack my luggage and be on my way sir. So I am looking for my wallet, I find everything, except my wallet. I call her, she says well my car is at the airport in the city she flew out of, then I say, ok I need to go get it, then she said she flew out of another city 45 minutes away. . I said fuck it. Its no telling where my wallet is. So now today, I have been calling her for over 24 hours and no phone calls or text's. So I am now wondering, is this bitch hiding from me, she better not be, she better be in jail.

She went to JAIL yesterday for wire fraud, where she flew out of, I guess it was business! WOW, what an ending to a 3 year turmoil of foolishness.

I was and am so fucking mad at her, and now I cant stop crying, why will happen to the baby & and her things in the house. Shit is so fucked up, I will now value even the smallest of new friendships and always have at least 2 people who I can depend on, i wish she would have known, I was that person should could depend on.

But at the same time, I still want to and may choke the bitch when she gets out. . .

WOW! Adoptions, over $600 million raised, and fake Haitian charities popping up all over..

Adoption of Haitian children, wow. . We have so many rich people in America now eager and willing to adopt Haitian kids bcuz they have no homes. Yes I do feel sorry for the kids, but where were these people months ago. Now they are just looking to keep up with the jones's. But my thought is, it wasn't in your heart lasst month, if you couldnt do anything for the hundreds of thousands of America Orphans with no homes, then why now? Becuz you see ur friends doing it, its fashionable now. White people are adopting little black kids like they are buying an hand bag. This is a mutha fucking shame, where were are all the other people who feel the same way, that we should have been adopting the kids here. I dont get it and no one is talking about it, not even the news, do I need to listen to Rush Limbaugh? lolol

Stop calling my phone complaining, post a comment about what you feel on my page. . Just click follow and add your comment... Dont agree with me, POST A COMMENT PLEASE, let me know how I am so wrong and will burn in hell for my thoughts. .

I do alot in the community and state of florida, a natural disaster doesn't have to happen in order for me to give a dollar, donate clothes, food, a ride, or anything. If more people just let a kind hand to others around them, we wouldnt be so sucked up in our own coutry. You cant find a job and people who owned homes 2 years ago are now homeless (who has been helping them) not our government, its too dam hard to get your home re-fied or a loan modification. Many who had cars are now walking or catching the city bus. What kinda shit is that? Now all the white people wanna rush out and adopt a little haitian baby or child, whom most will not be able to communicate with becuz of our language barrier. What do you think about this?

Do you know in a weeks time, they have raised over $600,000,000 in donations and by the time the Friday nite broadcast fundraiser ends, I know they will reach over the $1 billion dollar mark. . Will this be enough to rebuild this small, poverty and corrupt country. Or will the theiving government start over with the money stealing again, who will watch and govern them this time, because they obvously can not be honest and help their people. . Your either upper class or lower class.


Will the militia who broke into the orphange today to steal the kids food, let them rebuild the country. I dont remember the gangs and thugs that run New Orleans, harrassing people during Hurricane Katrina or the militia killing people after theTsunami in Indonesia, but Haiti- they baffle me. Stealing to re-sell, who in the fuck are you selling too, after an earthquake where every thing is destoyed and people dont even own bank accounts in the first place, your moneygrams and western unions are gone as who, so who the fuck are you selling too? Other people like yourselves who were already poor? The media and military- they brought their own food and water. WHY? I cant fathom this shit at all. .


Now down here in Miami, we have to deal with fake Haitian Charities popping up everywhere. How do I know? 2 of the people who have approached me about donating, I know they are crooks, they never help anyone and that money will NOT make it to Haiti or a charity, just as sure as I am white (look at my pic to the right) lolol. Why wouldn't you just call the Red Cross, Catholic Charities, or one of the reputable charities to donate? Becuz they (these haitian crooks that prey on their own people) already have plans for your dough. 1 even joked with me about buying a new car and how much money he made during Katrina. ( I called and reported him to police) Oh well. . . and yes, he is HAITIAN, both of them are. And a 3rd while i was in his office last wednesday, getting some business services done, called an attorney and told them, to set him up a foundation right quick? Why would you need to do something like that at the last minute, just like the adoption- they have other motives. . .( TO STEAL)

This shit is just making people like MYSELF madder and madder every day, its pathetic. . Even in a time of turmoil, scam artist will take advantage. Rather its their officials, or their own people in another country. In a few months, we will start to see reports on "Haiti, where did the money go" you will see the obvious, lolol ( Administration Fees) lolololol and you know I am right. . .

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Temporary Protective Status to Haitians, WOW!

I am highly upset with the government today, just saw the report (Temporary status to Haitians) wow! OK, I was not upset for the humanitarian aid given, but dam. . Now they can come and get drivers licenses, and work permits. I thought we were in a recession and at 17% unemployment rate and that is just the unemployment that is reported. What about all the people who use to get paid under the table that lost jobs, lolol


Now we have to not only fight the Haitians that are here and willing to work for beans, now more of their families are arriving and will do the same thing. DAYUM! Plenty of Americans feel the same way I do, especially when you loose a cushy $32 an hour job to a Haitian that doesn't have half the experience, common sense, english, or education that you do. But you find out, it was all about the money, and they said they would work for $9 an hour, so your ass is now out of a job. You cant work at KFC, bcuz you are too educated or a flight risk (when u find a better job making what you use to make, your gone). I am one of those Americans, Hey Mr. Obama can I get a stimulus package to pay my rent, so I wont die on the streets due to starvation and homelessness.

They come over and start their own communites, never learn English and look at us like we are crazy if we wont to live among them. They are in this country for 14 years and dont speak english ( or at least they pretend to) I do admire how they buy at each others businesses and even if that fellow Haitian cheats them, they will still go back. They easily get government grants from uncle sam, but a citizen has to do dog and pony tricks. (but other immigrants get that treatment as well)


When America has a natural disaster, our aid comes for our government, am i correct? I dont remember French in New Orleans or New York. Did we get aid and help packages from other countries, I really don't remember, enlighten me readers. I need to know. . I remember, me helping and other Americans, I saw an article today about Haitians sending aid back home, they have been doing that.. What's new? I had a Haitian co-worker in Jacksonville, saying she didnt have it to give to Katrina victims and we worked together. She drove a nice car and lived in a nice home, but I bet she sent money to Haiti.


The biggest Haitian communities are in Miami. We house almost 300,000 Haitians, some came legally(nothing against them), others came legally (but never left when visa or status was over) Umm, some swam over, and others stole away by any means necessary. WTF. . . . I think all those proud Haitians here, should go back and physically help build Haiti, they could be a great nation, but all of their citizens are running here and Canada. . May the Dominicans should buy the land and they could use that money to rebuild and call themselves Dominicans, lolol


Ya know, I just was wondering, what other countries are going to line up and let them come and give them food stamps, drivers license, and Citizenship like us (United States)? If you have seen the reports, please comment for others to see. I would appreciate it. I know they may go to other countries, but where?



I dont know, i am just pissed at Obama, and the U.S and dont hate me, i am not the only one who feels this way. The others are just scared. . I dont give a fuck and speak my mind. Dam! Miami is messed up. We had a few homeless die on the street last week, who came forward to help them. You cant get $5 for domestic violence, Autism research, homelessness, orphans( adoptions), church's who help people pay their rent, or any organization to help someone here in our backyard. . Hey Angelina, Brad, Tiger can we get some help with shelters for the homeless. We do have single men and women on the streets dying everyday. . They cant find a job, and not becuz of lack of experience or education, its becuz someone else will do it for $3 an hour.



I am just floored today, thats all. You would be frustrated too, if you saw people tryin to help over here and you cant raise a dime out of someone, bcuz they claim not to have any money to help orphan kids or autistic kids and they take $14,000 in cash to donate to Haiti. I mean, they only wanted a $30 donation. Dont they need supplies in Haiti, why did you go buy and deliver supplies? Someone just bought a new Birkin Bag, or a new car, lolol. Too many mom and pop chairties that never did anything before, start to pop up to fast and too quick on social sites, who is talking about that. Think about it! 9-11 and hurricane katrina funding. .


They just wasted a half billion dollars in raised funds to Haiti. $400,000,000 from non-profits and Americans, and other nations and $100,000,000 from Obama (tax payers). The polical heads that are still alive, have already picked out new homes in other countries, including America and spent that money on luxury items in their heads. We have been giving them money for years and my thought was, why their government didnt give them a stimulus package and why were they so poor.Millions poor into Haiti, millions.  Top officials in Haiti live good, I mean very good. . I have meant a few of their families that live in Miami and they brag about their homes and the pictures that they have shown me. I am blown away by all of this. Can I get a biscuit please? $$


Scientist did warn them (top officials) of the earthquake, so what happend in that communication? More people could have lived.


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Ah, Shit its the NEW YEAR BITCH's. . .

Can Old Things be made new again? or am I just horny?

I have since like early October 09, been thinking about a particular ex, that I thought I would not think about in this way again. My problem, is for the last 3 years we have seen each other, talk all the time on the phone, have even partied together and never slept together again. I honestly didn't want to, but would joke around with him. Only becuz we both are sexual creatures, that is what started our relationship and kept it going. Aside from me being the awesome woman that I am.  Play Wit It!

Anyway, in the last 3 months, I have had like an lust, dreams and sensations about sleeping with him again for real. Can this be from getting bad sex and remembering the Animalistic sex that we use to have, having heartless sex with my boytoy (he is so fine, but an idiot) or is this simply my feelings toward him have truly changed. Now, I feel crazy bcuz I have no idea if this person has grown up or not. I have, but can I truly sleep with him and leave like I am known for, and say smooches at the end?

I think I can, but he said something to me a week ago, that I have been thinking about alot. He said, sleeping with you claims my heart. I asked what he meant, he said he could not just have sex with me and that is it. . I felt good that someone still felt that way after all this time but weird. And he also said he saw us in the church but not sitting in the pews. I felt weirded out at the same time, just not sure which weird it was. (I was horny and wanted to fuck)

My problem is, do I do me, and have some animalistic sex to start 2010 off right, or do I keep my legs closed and remain friends, with this person. . I love him and I always will.

But I have the men around, but lately I have just wanted him and kept my boy toy and other men at bay. What does this mean? I truly need the ultimate nut right now and I am the kinda person that doesnt like the 2nd item on the menu. I get mad if what I ordered is not available. lolol

Oh my, I am having some heavy issues right now!

Why I havent written in a month? THANKSGIVING, R u N need?

Some of you know Thanksgiving is a very sad time for me, but this year was different. I stayed in the house and ate only once, yeah and it was less than 300 calories. I did a lot of thinking, meditation and church, just having a wonderful time being happy. Then on Black Friday is where my holiday turned UGLY. OK!

Someone bought me a light sweater, bcuz the weather was changing and she knew I wasn't working, like I use to and was job hunting. So when she was bringing me back to my brothers house Friday night it was freezing like 45 degrees outside. We are driving and I saw this lady sitting next to a grocery cart full of her things shivering, with her head bent down. So I asked my EX- GF , (who will remain nameless), well let's; nick name her HEFFA. So I asked this Heffa to turn around I needed to go into Walgreens, that was a lie on my part. I walked down the sidewalk and gave this trashy and odor ridden lady my new sweater which I loved. She was so stank my eyes watered the closer I got to her. She told me she was hungry and I told her I came to give her my sweater and I only had $1.30 on me and she could have it.

Now the Heffa I was with, said Y the hell you gave that bitch the sweater I just bought you. I said I will give you $20 when I get paid, and I appreciate it, but I guess that means I cant ask you for $3 to give her. lolol, I said that lady has no where to sleep, shelters are crowed and at least I have a place to sleep tonight".
This Heffa said, I don't give them bums shit, all they do is drank it up" Now to my knowledge and I don't claim to be the smartest person on the planet, but how can you DRINK up a sweater? I asked her and she got mad, do you know this Heffa left me at Walgreens and I had to walk to my brothers house 7 blocks with my things in my hand, it was freezing Friday night.

So guess who called today Monday after Thanksgiving to apologize, she said she was reprimanded by her husband. I believe that. He is a good person and honestly always has been too good for her, but anyway, I diverse, lolol So after she finished talking, I politely said, I am walking into an interview and its not a problem if you don't talk or call me any more. (hint, hint) I prefer friends that care for others, bcuz if you see me in the streets one day, I wanna know your not gonna walk over and kick me, but give me a helping hand.

The world would be a better place and I would be much happier than I am, if we just PAID A LITTLE FORWARD, it doesn't take much, just a little. Put a quarter in someone's expired meter, buy a friend some lunch, if you see they might cant afford it, give a new paid a shoes to a kid at a less fortunate school (teachers know, just ask who the kids are). . THINK ABOUT IT!

What a Heffa she is, Ill get that bitch the $18 we paid for the sweater at Ross, lolol but she is no longer a friend of mine, she had been downgraded to (pass me by associate) lolol


Dumping Ass Wipes in 2009 is still my motto. . . .Kick rocks if you don't agree. . .

Good Energy from today, tomorrow, and the future. . . . .


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Education for women! But men can use it too- just T.I.red, of some of yall women.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. . .

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes YOU truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't "be friends."

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Stop having un-protected sex, talking bout you on the pill. . BITCH PLEASE!

Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. Hello, do you hear me! Hello are you there? lol

All men are NOT dogs. I have aways believed this and tell some of my girls, but yall dont believe me and still settle for the piecce of shit you have.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make me wanna kiss them all in their hot mouths. I love dating!

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. OK YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE, stop calling him every 5 mnutes, he sleeping with the next chick anyway and you just messing up his vibe instead of moving on. lololol

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

And if you think I am truly your friend and want to hear your dumb as rants, Go Play in Traffic!

Being around happy people will change your thoughts and agenda on where you are going in life. Stop trying to bring me down, with your dumb decisions, about the man you know you shouldnt be with, and how he takes your money, drives your car, makes you feel like shit, gets you to baby sit his kids- while he goes out with the boys and his baby momma thinks he is with their kids, cooks his dinner, run errands, again spend your money, and get you to give him sex whenever he wants (sometimes rape-when yo say NO!)and it is rape married, dating etc.- all while treating you like the dumb bitch you are. .

Dont call Joe Bacon,(I dont wanna hear it!) common sense has not left me and I have never been hooked on drugs to want to tolerate your dumbness. I only talk to you once, after that, I have no breath to waste on you.

Dueces, BITCHES!

If you need real dating advice, email me MrsXklucive@aol.com