Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes YOU truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve,
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Stop having un-protected sex, talking bout you on the pill. . BITCH PLEASE!
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. Hello, do you hear me! Hello are you there? lol
All men are NOT dogs. I have aways believed this and tell some of my girls, but yall dont believe me and still settle for the piecce of shit you have.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make me wanna kiss them all in their hot mouths. I love dating!
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. OK YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE, stop calling him every 5 mnutes, he sleeping with the next chick anyway and you just messing up his vibe instead of moving on. lololol
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
And if you think I am truly your friend and want to hear your dumb as rants, Go Play in Traffic!
Being around happy people will change your thoughts and agenda on where you are going in life. Stop trying to bring me down, with your dumb decisions, about the man you know you shouldnt be with, and how he takes your money, drives your car, makes you feel like shit, gets you to baby sit his kids- while he goes out with the boys and his baby momma thinks he is with their kids, cooks his dinner, run errands, again spend your money, and get you to give him sex whenever he wants (sometimes rape-when yo say NO!)and it is rape married, dating etc.- all while treating you like the dumb bitch you are. .
Dont call Joe Bacon,(I dont wanna hear it!) common sense has not left me and I have never been hooked on drugs to want to tolerate your dumbness. I only talk to you once, after that, I have no breath to waste on you.
Dueces, BITCHES!
If you need real dating advice, email me MrsXklucive@aol.com
