Had a father's day cookout last night. Had Fun! But questions lingered thru the night. The man that I like showed jealousy of another man hitting on me, ( that has no chance with me) How can someone stop someone else from liking them. So men just like the chace, but that chace with me can go on for years, until their death.
They get mad if you dont give them your phone number. They dont know how to court women any more, bcuz of all the chicken heads that made their pussy so readily easy for men not to have to work for it. Then women like myself have a hard time searching for the kind of man we want and like.
And yall wonder why women turn gay, ITS EASIER BITCHES! (men) lolol
If a man is not secure enough to trust a woman who likes a certain type of man, never showed any interest in anyone else but you and tells you how she feels. WHAT THE FUCK IS THE PROBLEM? This kinda shit pisses me off. I dont have time for drama or bull shit in my life. This shit will only push me away and seek another. So fellas if you have a great woman, dont try her. Sometimes we push back, and TRUST! It will sting in the end.
Just let me do me and you, then there will not be any problems. What the hell should I do, I think I am gonna have to flip the script for a minute and see if that works for me. If it does, I will find someone else any way, becuz that means, he is so content with bull shit, he doesnt know how to respond to anything else. I'm too old for this shit now, and tired... So fuck it!
Monday, June 21, 2010
Thursday, June 17, 2010
WIFE vs WIFEY!
When I was growing up, the “Unofficial Woman’s Handbook” always spun the idea, that when it came to a woman’s virtue, the best bet would be to hold on to what you have, and a man’s response to your chastity would resolve itself into a life of happiness and matrimony.
We’ve all heard the phrase, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.” Words were no truer a reality, then they are now in this generation where marriage has become somewhat of an urban legend, or possibly the next stop in mythological findings.
Times have definitely changed, and the game of love doesn’t necessarily honor its members with a salute of longevity by way of exchanging vows. Rather, the new plan of attack is to just cop yourselves a prototype; a title officially known to most as “wifey.”
But what exactly is a wifey anyway? Is this the new standard women should aim for rather than bothering with the archaic ideology that marriage is the game of fortune?
Wifey’s are far different than being a man’s girlfriend. Usually a girlfriend aspires to be a man’s wife. On the other hand, wifey’s aspire to keep a man happy, whether the title of wife comes in the future or not.
The name in itself has all the pleasures of everything a wife possesses, but when a brother wants to walk away, he can do so without having to miss a beat due to court appearances or battles over the shared property.
In the wake of recent public divorces involving Swizz Beatz and Dwyane Wade, it would seem as if the exchanging of vows no longer offers the security it once did when it comes to hoping for a guarantee in forever. Does this mean love would be better served if we just threw away the idea of marriage? Should we opt to stay in the pretense of matrimony with someone who would be willing to wear the crown without being sworn in to the throne?
Maybe.
It might save people a lot of trouble and misfortune, to just cop themselves a wifey, instead of trying to find forever with a wife. Hmph… if only I believed that theory.
Unfortunately, being able to cut your losses when the going gets tough is becoming the most attractive venture in aspiring relationships. It’s also an excuse for folks to treat love like a temporary tattoo–easily washed and removed when the surface appears to get tattered and torn, rather then working to fix the problems.
In examining the two, there are vast differences in both titles.
The duties of a wifey are definitely not those of a wife.
Oh no. A wifey’s sole responsibility is to keep it fun, playful, and sexually interesting at all times. They don’t have to worry about exploring the budget, because the plan isn’t for them to hold down a household. And until that theory changes, they can enjoy the perks of living the life of a wife, without having to actually worry about paying the mortgage.
But what really makes these women so attractive to men is they’d rather settle down with someone who they see no end in sight with?
To many, wifeys mark the difference between a man coming home to a frumpy housemate, versus running home to play house with a sexy bedmate.
Most cheaters claim after they got married, everything changed. All the sexy their woman once had dried up like a grape turning into a raisin once the vows were said. Wifey’s on the other hand stay sexy year round, which makes them a more attractive mate, than waking up next to a woman who suddenly looks like her mom.
In defense of said women, the responsibilities of a wife far outweigh the laid back lifestyle of a man’s wifey. Wives cook and clean, while wifeys kick back, relax, and look good on a man’s arm. Wives have to work full time, and maintain the household once they get home. Wifeys have to maintain only the relationship by keeping a man pleasured, happy, and continually interested in their presence.
It should be noted that just because a woman gets married doesn’t mean she’ll let herself go. There are plenty of women who can sustain a superwoman posture, and still remind their man why he chose them in the first place.
Yet even with all of this on the table, more and more men are either leaving their wives for these women, or settling with women who are cool with the idea they never have to formally commit to forever.
With Michelle Obama standing tall as the wife many of us desire to one day be, should we still hope our men will always want to “Put a Ring On It,” or must we prepare ourselves for the role of playing house for as long as our car is allowed in the driveway?
Is it cool to be a wifey or should be demand to be a wife? Do you think a woman can be both?
REPOSTED FROM CLUTCH MAGAZINE. . . . all my thoughts reminded me, I needed that. ..
What made u want to settle or did you forget to ask yourself that important question? You know the woman you are and what all you have to offer? Do you feel that your worthy of being the wife and not Wifey? What made him marry her and not you, but your still around? What could you have done differently to make that change? Would it be forever with you, or will another woman later, become Wifey, while your the wife?
So many questions and only 1 answer. ( Get your own and figure it out, leave her man alone) by Joe Bacon
We’ve all heard the phrase, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.” Words were no truer a reality, then they are now in this generation where marriage has become somewhat of an urban legend, or possibly the next stop in mythological findings.
Times have definitely changed, and the game of love doesn’t necessarily honor its members with a salute of longevity by way of exchanging vows. Rather, the new plan of attack is to just cop yourselves a prototype; a title officially known to most as “wifey.”
But what exactly is a wifey anyway? Is this the new standard women should aim for rather than bothering with the archaic ideology that marriage is the game of fortune?
Wifey’s are far different than being a man’s girlfriend. Usually a girlfriend aspires to be a man’s wife. On the other hand, wifey’s aspire to keep a man happy, whether the title of wife comes in the future or not.
The name in itself has all the pleasures of everything a wife possesses, but when a brother wants to walk away, he can do so without having to miss a beat due to court appearances or battles over the shared property.
In the wake of recent public divorces involving Swizz Beatz and Dwyane Wade, it would seem as if the exchanging of vows no longer offers the security it once did when it comes to hoping for a guarantee in forever. Does this mean love would be better served if we just threw away the idea of marriage? Should we opt to stay in the pretense of matrimony with someone who would be willing to wear the crown without being sworn in to the throne?
Maybe.
It might save people a lot of trouble and misfortune, to just cop themselves a wifey, instead of trying to find forever with a wife. Hmph… if only I believed that theory.
Unfortunately, being able to cut your losses when the going gets tough is becoming the most attractive venture in aspiring relationships. It’s also an excuse for folks to treat love like a temporary tattoo–easily washed and removed when the surface appears to get tattered and torn, rather then working to fix the problems.
In examining the two, there are vast differences in both titles.
The duties of a wifey are definitely not those of a wife.
Oh no. A wifey’s sole responsibility is to keep it fun, playful, and sexually interesting at all times. They don’t have to worry about exploring the budget, because the plan isn’t for them to hold down a household. And until that theory changes, they can enjoy the perks of living the life of a wife, without having to actually worry about paying the mortgage.
But what really makes these women so attractive to men is they’d rather settle down with someone who they see no end in sight with?
To many, wifeys mark the difference between a man coming home to a frumpy housemate, versus running home to play house with a sexy bedmate.
Most cheaters claim after they got married, everything changed. All the sexy their woman once had dried up like a grape turning into a raisin once the vows were said. Wifey’s on the other hand stay sexy year round, which makes them a more attractive mate, than waking up next to a woman who suddenly looks like her mom.
In defense of said women, the responsibilities of a wife far outweigh the laid back lifestyle of a man’s wifey. Wives cook and clean, while wifeys kick back, relax, and look good on a man’s arm. Wives have to work full time, and maintain the household once they get home. Wifeys have to maintain only the relationship by keeping a man pleasured, happy, and continually interested in their presence.
It should be noted that just because a woman gets married doesn’t mean she’ll let herself go. There are plenty of women who can sustain a superwoman posture, and still remind their man why he chose them in the first place.
Yet even with all of this on the table, more and more men are either leaving their wives for these women, or settling with women who are cool with the idea they never have to formally commit to forever.
With Michelle Obama standing tall as the wife many of us desire to one day be, should we still hope our men will always want to “Put a Ring On It,” or must we prepare ourselves for the role of playing house for as long as our car is allowed in the driveway?
Is it cool to be a wifey or should be demand to be a wife? Do you think a woman can be both?
REPOSTED FROM CLUTCH MAGAZINE. . . . all my thoughts reminded me, I needed that. ..
What made u want to settle or did you forget to ask yourself that important question? You know the woman you are and what all you have to offer? Do you feel that your worthy of being the wife and not Wifey? What made him marry her and not you, but your still around? What could you have done differently to make that change? Would it be forever with you, or will another woman later, become Wifey, while your the wife?
So many questions and only 1 answer. ( Get your own and figure it out, leave her man alone) by Joe Bacon
Sunday, May 9, 2010
It's been a while, 2.5 months since my last post
UPDATE- I moved back to West Palm for 6 months for training then back to ATL. I am deeply sadden by this bcuz I love West Palm , although Miami and its fucking immigrants pissed me off alot. I was planning on retiring in South Florida, this recession is a mutha fucka, I can tell you that much.
Anyway, the new job eh. But it helps me pay the bills, I love the new people I have met. Some are crazy like me that is a plus. lololol ( shut up I hear yall) lololol
I wanna be near my aunt in ATL, she has MS and it looks as if its taking a toll on her. I think she will pull around, but i considered her the deepest living impact on my life and the sane part of me. hehehe But sriously , I just wanna be near her.
I am back to my ranting and raving of the lunatic that is I ( JOE BACON)
This is short and sweet , talk to yall in a few. .
Anyway, the new job eh. But it helps me pay the bills, I love the new people I have met. Some are crazy like me that is a plus. lololol ( shut up I hear yall) lololol
I wanna be near my aunt in ATL, she has MS and it looks as if its taking a toll on her. I think she will pull around, but i considered her the deepest living impact on my life and the sane part of me. hehehe But sriously , I just wanna be near her.
I am back to my ranting and raving of the lunatic that is I ( JOE BACON)
This is short and sweet , talk to yall in a few. .
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Friendships, Sisterhood, Trust, Communication, and Responsiblity.
I know its been a month but for anyone who knows me, ya know I was at the Super Bowl and this year the Pro Bowl was thrown in there. . . .
Anyway, ya already know how I feel about Haiti. Well another subject has shifted my focus tonight. .
A girlfriend that once was a great friend to me, now gone rouge. . .
Friendship- state of being friends with someone. This is something that I take very seriously. Do people really not value awesome friends anymore. Sometimes friends treat you better than your own family. I cant understand why anyone in their right mind, who needs friends would treat another person so crudely.
Sisterhood- sisterly relationship, solidarity of women based on shared conditions, experience, or concerns. We had great times together and thought there were reasons to lie, steal, or hurt each other.
Trust- assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something, one of which confidence is placed. When I can no longer trust someone it angers me to unbelievable heights and evilness, because the lie is so petty and never should have been told. $$ and life play a huge factor in the situation. I am just in total awe of the entire situation. . . . .
Communication- a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common sense of symbols, signs, or behavior. Do people not realize that if your in trouble and you are suppose to be friends, that you are their to support them. Kids are involved and you should not take that lightly.
Responsibility- something for which one is responsible (burden) - has neglected her responsibilities. As a mother your child should come first, not men, not your pride, not your family- that beautiful child of yours. . .
Situation is that I have this girlfriend that use to be very close to me, but until 3 years ago she started to change. She went from being a country club member, football players & very sucessful men, being respected by the community,alot of friends, beamers & benz to men who live in halfway houses, lying, friends who tolerate her and money issues.
3 yeas ago she started dating someone who had only been out of jail for 3 weeks. He lived in a half way house, after doing 10 years in jail. (yeah- I know) Yall don't understand this is no hood chick, has a family of means, support, and money. Board member in different social groups, does fundraising, goes to social balls and knows what the term "Seasons" mean in Palm Beach, lolol if U have to ask, then U don't know, lolol And her last boyfriend played for the Chicago Bears.
Anyway, where was I? oh. so he is out of jail after 10 years, and in a half way house. Now, she has a jaguar, a beamer, 2 houses, job that pays over $100,000 a year, single with no kids. PRIME of her life. .
Now her new beau straight outta jail, is driving her cars, and she is treating his family to dinner and shopping sprees. "I'm floored as well as her other friends and her family. We tried the nice approach, which U already figured didn't work, then cursing her out before things got out of hand.
So she is now falling in love, lost her mind and crazy within 2 months of meeting this guy. So now she is talking about marriage and of course my phone keeps hanging up on her, I have no idea( the line just dies, lolol) anyway, a few months later she is telling me she is pregnant ( I think its a bad joke but its true) he still living in the half way house. So now, she is getting married, I asked her if she wants me to slit her wrist for her, especially after she tells me about her moms disapproval (YA THINK! ) He is also kicking her ass, we cant talk about that right now, I am getting mad.
The OMG moment! While she is waiting on him to take her to the court house and get married, he just called to say "I love you" ooops, no wrong story, he called to say "I decided to marry someone else and I am now married to her" WTF, OMG, Kill yo self drama. . I was looking for Jerry Springer to come busting thru the door or Aston Kutcher to say "your being punked". 2 weeks later, we find out, not only did he marry someone else on her, but the new wife is pregnant and they are a week apart on delivery dates and there is a 3rd lady pregnant as well. . I ask, can U believe it? This is a true story. . .WAIT THERE IS ALOT MORE. . so now she is really lost her MIND, not calling her crazy, she has become crazy. . And I know love is a mutha fucka, but dam. .Yall shouldn't have been together in the first place. Now she is looking real stupid, what did you think would happen with a nigga who been locked up for 10 years with no PUSSY. WHAT DID YOU THINK WOULD HAPPEN, REALLY? I need to know.
So now she starts dating another man she met, while taking him back and forth from the half way house. . I guess hoping to see him and make him jealous. her rationalization for anything is out the door. Same thing with this one, but now she is 7 months pregnant and sleeping with someone else in the halfway house with 9 kids. She has the baby, the guy is maybe around until 2 months after, then she is back with the baby daddy who has left his wife, but not divorced her. (I guess he needed money to support that other family) lolol he came back for a few months and left again. . .Back to his wife and $6 an hour job, and my friend is just a lunatic. . she is now stalking him, buying things for his family (sisters and his son from before he went to prison) I call her crazy, bcuz she has lost he job running behind him and now is not working. Her daughter is quickly growing up. She lost both houses and both cars and moved in with her parents. Its another year, and the child they had is now a year and a half. For some reason - I think he needed money again and his wife put him up to it, she is slimy just as he is, now I knew why he married her, aside from her being pregnant too.
Holidays 2009,around October- she gets a house and they move in together, but this was short lived. The wife only kicked him out, no intentions on divorcing him. He started to kick her ass again and this time breaks her arm. YES BROKE HER FUCKING ARM. . . and then left her on Christmas Day to spend time with his real family. She calls me outta the blue bcuz I started to separate my friendship from her for over a year now.
I realize she needed a friend, so in January 2010, I decide to go see her, but for 2 weeks she kept having emergencies come up. . So I finally said, "look bitch I will be there in the morning , fuck the bullshit" she comes out and says she is 5.5 months pregnant by him. . OMG...........................................................!
I mean, WTF . . . The first thing I could say was when is ur appointment at the clinic for an AB? WHAT? Yall just don't know. . She says, she doesn't know if she can get it done, I'm thinking she is talking about time, this bitch is considering having another child by him. . I told her it was up to 6mths, and don't make me call her mom. . . I couldn't even go see her, I was so mad. . .She went about 5 days later to terminate the pregnancy. . . .Said her mother took her, I now do NOT believe that.
So I am trying to give her support because I feel so sadden by her change in demeanor, and mind set. And just embarrassed for her all together as my friend. I mean, I am a hermit at times, but I have 4 very strong friendships that I call on in a time of need. . And for her not to come to me, I am just floored, mad, and in awe at what she has been getting involved in.. .
So lets go to 2 weeks ago, Super Bowl week in South Florida, she claims to be moving into a new house for a new start. Well yesterday I am at her house around 11:30a, she flew out of town at 7am, but didn't tell me yet again what type of trouble she is in. . Landlord comes to evict her, wait she moved in 2 weeks ago. . She has written 2 bad checks and then deposited a check for a closed account into the homeowners business account (can you say FELONY?). . . so the landlord is informing me that I have to visit, I tell him no problem, I don't even live here and was visiting, I will pack my luggage and be on my way sir. So I am looking for my wallet, I find everything, except my wallet. I call her, she says well my car is at the airport in the city she flew out of, then I say, ok I need to go get it, then she said she flew out of another city 45 minutes away. . I said fuck it. Its no telling where my wallet is. So now today, I have been calling her for over 24 hours and no phone calls or text's. So I am now wondering, is this bitch hiding from me, she better not be, she better be in jail.
She went to JAIL yesterday for wire fraud, where she flew out of, I guess it was business! WOW, what an ending to a 3 year turmoil of foolishness.
I was and am so fucking mad at her, and now I cant stop crying, why will happen to the baby & and her things in the house. Shit is so fucked up, I will now value even the smallest of new friendships and always have at least 2 people who I can depend on, i wish she would have known, I was that person should could depend on.
But at the same time, I still want to and may choke the bitch when she gets out. . .
Anyway, ya already know how I feel about Haiti. Well another subject has shifted my focus tonight. .
A girlfriend that once was a great friend to me, now gone rouge. . .
Friendship- state of being friends with someone. This is something that I take very seriously. Do people really not value awesome friends anymore. Sometimes friends treat you better than your own family. I cant understand why anyone in their right mind, who needs friends would treat another person so crudely.
Sisterhood- sisterly relationship, solidarity of women based on shared conditions, experience, or concerns. We had great times together and thought there were reasons to lie, steal, or hurt each other.
Trust- assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something, one of which confidence is placed. When I can no longer trust someone it angers me to unbelievable heights and evilness, because the lie is so petty and never should have been told. $$ and life play a huge factor in the situation. I am just in total awe of the entire situation. . . . .
Communication- a process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a common sense of symbols, signs, or behavior. Do people not realize that if your in trouble and you are suppose to be friends, that you are their to support them. Kids are involved and you should not take that lightly.
Responsibility- something for which one is responsible (burden) - has neglected her responsibilities. As a mother your child should come first, not men, not your pride, not your family- that beautiful child of yours. . .
Situation is that I have this girlfriend that use to be very close to me, but until 3 years ago she started to change. She went from being a country club member, football players & very sucessful men, being respected by the community,alot of friends, beamers & benz to men who live in halfway houses, lying, friends who tolerate her and money issues.
3 yeas ago she started dating someone who had only been out of jail for 3 weeks. He lived in a half way house, after doing 10 years in jail. (yeah- I know) Yall don't understand this is no hood chick, has a family of means, support, and money. Board member in different social groups, does fundraising, goes to social balls and knows what the term "Seasons" mean in Palm Beach, lolol if U have to ask, then U don't know, lolol And her last boyfriend played for the Chicago Bears.
Anyway, where was I? oh. so he is out of jail after 10 years, and in a half way house. Now, she has a jaguar, a beamer, 2 houses, job that pays over $100,000 a year, single with no kids. PRIME of her life. .
Now her new beau straight outta jail, is driving her cars, and she is treating his family to dinner and shopping sprees. "I'm floored as well as her other friends and her family. We tried the nice approach, which U already figured didn't work, then cursing her out before things got out of hand.
So she is now falling in love, lost her mind and crazy within 2 months of meeting this guy. So now she is talking about marriage and of course my phone keeps hanging up on her, I have no idea( the line just dies, lolol) anyway, a few months later she is telling me she is pregnant ( I think its a bad joke but its true) he still living in the half way house. So now, she is getting married, I asked her if she wants me to slit her wrist for her, especially after she tells me about her moms disapproval (YA THINK! ) He is also kicking her ass, we cant talk about that right now, I am getting mad.
The OMG moment! While she is waiting on him to take her to the court house and get married, he just called to say "I love you" ooops, no wrong story, he called to say "I decided to marry someone else and I am now married to her" WTF, OMG, Kill yo self drama. . I was looking for Jerry Springer to come busting thru the door or Aston Kutcher to say "your being punked". 2 weeks later, we find out, not only did he marry someone else on her, but the new wife is pregnant and they are a week apart on delivery dates and there is a 3rd lady pregnant as well. . I ask, can U believe it? This is a true story. . .WAIT THERE IS ALOT MORE. . so now she is really lost her MIND, not calling her crazy, she has become crazy. . And I know love is a mutha fucka, but dam. .Yall shouldn't have been together in the first place. Now she is looking real stupid, what did you think would happen with a nigga who been locked up for 10 years with no PUSSY. WHAT DID YOU THINK WOULD HAPPEN, REALLY? I need to know.
So now she starts dating another man she met, while taking him back and forth from the half way house. . I guess hoping to see him and make him jealous. her rationalization for anything is out the door. Same thing with this one, but now she is 7 months pregnant and sleeping with someone else in the halfway house with 9 kids. She has the baby, the guy is maybe around until 2 months after, then she is back with the baby daddy who has left his wife, but not divorced her. (I guess he needed money to support that other family) lolol he came back for a few months and left again. . .Back to his wife and $6 an hour job, and my friend is just a lunatic. . she is now stalking him, buying things for his family (sisters and his son from before he went to prison) I call her crazy, bcuz she has lost he job running behind him and now is not working. Her daughter is quickly growing up. She lost both houses and both cars and moved in with her parents. Its another year, and the child they had is now a year and a half. For some reason - I think he needed money again and his wife put him up to it, she is slimy just as he is, now I knew why he married her, aside from her being pregnant too.
Holidays 2009,around October- she gets a house and they move in together, but this was short lived. The wife only kicked him out, no intentions on divorcing him. He started to kick her ass again and this time breaks her arm. YES BROKE HER FUCKING ARM. . . and then left her on Christmas Day to spend time with his real family. She calls me outta the blue bcuz I started to separate my friendship from her for over a year now.
I realize she needed a friend, so in January 2010, I decide to go see her, but for 2 weeks she kept having emergencies come up. . So I finally said, "look bitch I will be there in the morning , fuck the bullshit" she comes out and says she is 5.5 months pregnant by him. . OMG...........................................................!
I mean, WTF . . . The first thing I could say was when is ur appointment at the clinic for an AB? WHAT? Yall just don't know. . She says, she doesn't know if she can get it done, I'm thinking she is talking about time, this bitch is considering having another child by him. . I told her it was up to 6mths, and don't make me call her mom. . . I couldn't even go see her, I was so mad. . .She went about 5 days later to terminate the pregnancy. . . .Said her mother took her, I now do NOT believe that.
So I am trying to give her support because I feel so sadden by her change in demeanor, and mind set. And just embarrassed for her all together as my friend. I mean, I am a hermit at times, but I have 4 very strong friendships that I call on in a time of need. . And for her not to come to me, I am just floored, mad, and in awe at what she has been getting involved in.. .
So lets go to 2 weeks ago, Super Bowl week in South Florida, she claims to be moving into a new house for a new start. Well yesterday I am at her house around 11:30a, she flew out of town at 7am, but didn't tell me yet again what type of trouble she is in. . Landlord comes to evict her, wait she moved in 2 weeks ago. . She has written 2 bad checks and then deposited a check for a closed account into the homeowners business account (can you say FELONY?). . . so the landlord is informing me that I have to visit, I tell him no problem, I don't even live here and was visiting, I will pack my luggage and be on my way sir. So I am looking for my wallet, I find everything, except my wallet. I call her, she says well my car is at the airport in the city she flew out of, then I say, ok I need to go get it, then she said she flew out of another city 45 minutes away. . I said fuck it. Its no telling where my wallet is. So now today, I have been calling her for over 24 hours and no phone calls or text's. So I am now wondering, is this bitch hiding from me, she better not be, she better be in jail.
She went to JAIL yesterday for wire fraud, where she flew out of, I guess it was business! WOW, what an ending to a 3 year turmoil of foolishness.
I was and am so fucking mad at her, and now I cant stop crying, why will happen to the baby & and her things in the house. Shit is so fucked up, I will now value even the smallest of new friendships and always have at least 2 people who I can depend on, i wish she would have known, I was that person should could depend on.
But at the same time, I still want to and may choke the bitch when she gets out. . .
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
WOW! Adoptions, over $600 million raised, and fake Haitian charities popping up all over..
Adoption of Haitian children, wow. . We have so many rich people in America now eager and willing to adopt Haitian kids bcuz they have no homes. Yes I do feel sorry for the kids, but where were these people months ago. Now they are just looking to keep up with the jones's. But my thought is, it wasn't in your heart lasst month, if you couldnt do anything for the hundreds of thousands of America Orphans with no homes, then why now? Becuz you see ur friends doing it, its fashionable now. White people are adopting little black kids like they are buying an hand bag. This is a mutha fucking shame, where were are all the other people who feel the same way, that we should have been adopting the kids here. I dont get it and no one is talking about it, not even the news, do I need to listen to Rush Limbaugh? lolol
Stop calling my phone complaining, post a comment about what you feel on my page. . Just click follow and add your comment... Dont agree with me, POST A COMMENT PLEASE, let me know how I am so wrong and will burn in hell for my thoughts. .
I do alot in the community and state of florida, a natural disaster doesn't have to happen in order for me to give a dollar, donate clothes, food, a ride, or anything. If more people just let a kind hand to others around them, we wouldnt be so sucked up in our own coutry. You cant find a job and people who owned homes 2 years ago are now homeless (who has been helping them) not our government, its too dam hard to get your home re-fied or a loan modification. Many who had cars are now walking or catching the city bus. What kinda shit is that? Now all the white people wanna rush out and adopt a little haitian baby or child, whom most will not be able to communicate with becuz of our language barrier. What do you think about this?
Do you know in a weeks time, they have raised over $600,000,000 in donations and by the time the Friday nite broadcast fundraiser ends, I know they will reach over the $1 billion dollar mark. . Will this be enough to rebuild this small, poverty and corrupt country. Or will the theiving government start over with the money stealing again, who will watch and govern them this time, because they obvously can not be honest and help their people. . Your either upper class or lower class.
Will the militia who broke into the orphange today to steal the kids food, let them rebuild the country. I dont remember the gangs and thugs that run New Orleans, harrassing people during Hurricane Katrina or the militia killing people after theTsunami in Indonesia, but Haiti- they baffle me. Stealing to re-sell, who in the fuck are you selling too, after an earthquake where every thing is destoyed and people dont even own bank accounts in the first place, your moneygrams and western unions are gone as who, so who the fuck are you selling too? Other people like yourselves who were already poor? The media and military- they brought their own food and water. WHY? I cant fathom this shit at all. .
Now down here in Miami, we have to deal with fake Haitian Charities popping up everywhere. How do I know? 2 of the people who have approached me about donating, I know they are crooks, they never help anyone and that money will NOT make it to Haiti or a charity, just as sure as I am white (look at my pic to the right) lolol. Why wouldn't you just call the Red Cross, Catholic Charities, or one of the reputable charities to donate? Becuz they (these haitian crooks that prey on their own people) already have plans for your dough. 1 even joked with me about buying a new car and how much money he made during Katrina. ( I called and reported him to police) Oh well. . . and yes, he is HAITIAN, both of them are. And a 3rd while i was in his office last wednesday, getting some business services done, called an attorney and told them, to set him up a foundation right quick? Why would you need to do something like that at the last minute, just like the adoption- they have other motives. . .( TO STEAL)
This shit is just making people like MYSELF madder and madder every day, its pathetic. . Even in a time of turmoil, scam artist will take advantage. Rather its their officials, or their own people in another country. In a few months, we will start to see reports on "Haiti, where did the money go" you will see the obvious, lolol ( Administration Fees) lolololol and you know I am right. . .
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Stop calling my phone complaining, post a comment about what you feel on my page. . Just click follow and add your comment... Dont agree with me, POST A COMMENT PLEASE, let me know how I am so wrong and will burn in hell for my thoughts. .
I do alot in the community and state of florida, a natural disaster doesn't have to happen in order for me to give a dollar, donate clothes, food, a ride, or anything. If more people just let a kind hand to others around them, we wouldnt be so sucked up in our own coutry. You cant find a job and people who owned homes 2 years ago are now homeless (who has been helping them) not our government, its too dam hard to get your home re-fied or a loan modification. Many who had cars are now walking or catching the city bus. What kinda shit is that? Now all the white people wanna rush out and adopt a little haitian baby or child, whom most will not be able to communicate with becuz of our language barrier. What do you think about this?
Do you know in a weeks time, they have raised over $600,000,000 in donations and by the time the Friday nite broadcast fundraiser ends, I know they will reach over the $1 billion dollar mark. . Will this be enough to rebuild this small, poverty and corrupt country. Or will the theiving government start over with the money stealing again, who will watch and govern them this time, because they obvously can not be honest and help their people. . Your either upper class or lower class.
Will the militia who broke into the orphange today to steal the kids food, let them rebuild the country. I dont remember the gangs and thugs that run New Orleans, harrassing people during Hurricane Katrina or the militia killing people after theTsunami in Indonesia, but Haiti- they baffle me. Stealing to re-sell, who in the fuck are you selling too, after an earthquake where every thing is destoyed and people dont even own bank accounts in the first place, your moneygrams and western unions are gone as who, so who the fuck are you selling too? Other people like yourselves who were already poor? The media and military- they brought their own food and water. WHY? I cant fathom this shit at all. .
Now down here in Miami, we have to deal with fake Haitian Charities popping up everywhere. How do I know? 2 of the people who have approached me about donating, I know they are crooks, they never help anyone and that money will NOT make it to Haiti or a charity, just as sure as I am white (look at my pic to the right) lolol. Why wouldn't you just call the Red Cross, Catholic Charities, or one of the reputable charities to donate? Becuz they (these haitian crooks that prey on their own people) already have plans for your dough. 1 even joked with me about buying a new car and how much money he made during Katrina. ( I called and reported him to police) Oh well. . . and yes, he is HAITIAN, both of them are. And a 3rd while i was in his office last wednesday, getting some business services done, called an attorney and told them, to set him up a foundation right quick? Why would you need to do something like that at the last minute, just like the adoption- they have other motives. . .( TO STEAL)
This shit is just making people like MYSELF madder and madder every day, its pathetic. . Even in a time of turmoil, scam artist will take advantage. Rather its their officials, or their own people in another country. In a few months, we will start to see reports on "Haiti, where did the money go" you will see the obvious, lolol ( Administration Fees) lolololol and you know I am right. . .
Play wit It!
post your comment and send this to a friend of yours, that may not want to be a friend of mine.
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